Do what you can help to help others.
Give, give, give.
share the Gospel in every way.
sometimes i will think that i gave a lot.
i have sacrifices a lot of my time & all that.
but how can anyone know how big or how wide is so called as a lot?
can we over give what God had gave?
can we do more than what Jesus do?
we can't and so we can never give enough.
and if we can't give enough, there is no such thing as "i have gave a lot".
yes, to you, its a lot, but its not a lot actually.
true love is to give w/o having to take back.
sometimes when you give you would have some expectations in receiving.
and giving to the same person is so tired and sad when you see him not appreciating what you had gave.
it is indeed sad when you see the one you love don't love the way you love them.
because every body's love language is different...
so, what is love language??
1. Words affirmation
- it has to be from your heart
- Praise the effort if you can't praise the results
- "I really love you."
- Say it in front of others
- Say it from your own mouth (BEST WAY)
2. Physical Touch
-appropriate time/place
3. Quality Time
- " i enjoy playing with you."
Seek: togetherness, time, conversations, activities, attention, communication.
- love then time together with him
- enjoy the time with him
- smile when you're with him
- listen for feelings
- observe the body language
- DON'T INTERRUPT but ask "what can i do for you?"
4. Acts of service
- housework
- helping him
5. Gift
- love cheap stuffs for heart
- ceremony of giving
- money? must have a specific purpose
-Xiaowei
9:24 PM